One of the reasons why abortion is still going on in huge numbers by unskilled dangerous persons is because of this kind of thing “Oh my God how could you kill a life? You are a murderer. It doesn’t matter your reasons you are still a murderer. Gasiya tuu”
No wonder you sit there and pretend non of the people you know has or will ever induce an abortion.
It is why girls will just go in hiding, induce abortions at the witch doctors and end up six feet under. How about we look at why they abort?
Here is a scenario where we should stop being naïve, I mean parents should stop being Naïve and accept that their school and campus kids are having sex. A lot. And most of the time at that stage its un protected.
Now when parents and religious leaders are told to talk to young girls and boys about safe sex contraceptives, what is their reply? My kids are still young I don’t discuss those things with them.
Now picture a girl finds herself pregnant, she knows at home her parents will
a) kill her
b) send her packing to the responsible father
c) turn her into some short of example to the rest for a ruined future
d) stop paying for her school fees.
Or the 1% of sensible boys created by God who take responsibility and accept that it is indeed him who planted the seed. But he knows at home they will send him packing or pack up his things for him and ship him to an uncle to run away from the girl.
Now either of these two will talk to a few people in a harsh harsh torn and the solution, Abortion. Lets hear all those who are calling her a killer without looking at all the other responsible persons.
Like I said at Princesses one doctor confessed he has done abortions on 20 nuns, 9 IUCD implants (coils) etc etc. They too will pour scorn on a teenage/ school girl/ campus girl/ naïve girl/ girl who finds this the best solution to her future/ girl who fears ridicule from society when she gives birth out of wedlock.
Before the “How could you?” what are you doing to help those who are stuck in this situation. Shouldn’t we be discussing stopping unintended/unwanted pregnancies before we pour scorn on those who do abortions? Contraceptives not family planning to the young girls, how do you tell them family planning when they have no families to plan?
And by the way abortions are going up in the married bracket. Next time I will talk about one such woman.
Amazing stuff you came back with, after a lifetime of silence. Bienvenue. Deep.
the lady has her bwino..i like the fact that you are taking on such a ‘touchy’ issue,the kind we all know about but would rather not talk, let alone write about..deep stuff..will be waiting for the follow-up
Let me tell you a little something about sex, Chanel.
Welcome back!
No, that’s not it. Sex involves a man inserting his dick into a woman with her consent. The sole purpose of having sex is ejaculation and we all have sex knowing this.
Unless you’re stupid beyond redemption (that’s when Jesus says to God, “Dad, I’m sorry. I can’t do this. He’s just too stupid even for me) is when you’ll tell me that you’ll have sex without a rubber and expect not to get pregnant. That is just NOT an excuse to abort.
Only excuse is if you told me you were raped or his erection tore the rubber. And even with that you have ‘morning after’ pills.
FUCK ABORTION!!!
fuck erique.
That did not sound right at all. I mean Erique you illiterate idiot!
Hey Chanel, I understand where you’re coming from and there’s a lot of sense in it. I think parents should stop being shy about talking about sex to their kids and encourage them to treasure it as a sacred thing, not just a pleasure thing. In the same way, personally I think nowhere in the Bible does God command priests to have no wives or encourage women following after him to take no men. The Church (esp Catholic ) should allow men and women serving to get married so these type of things are prevented.
I am sure this would reduce the number of abortions drastically. Like the good book says, bring the dark things out into the light…
But I still think abortion is a cruel thing you know..
I knew the devil was around here somewhere.
AP, you sweet thing, I know the urge is there big time but we’ll come to that. For now you can leave the floor to more constructive talk.
Like seriously, you guys really don’t see the stupidity in having sex and expecting not to get pregnant? Really? Don’t make me call you words that will ruin my tongue.
Nuns…abortions…Hmm
I have heard of stories coming from the ‘Nsambya area’
and i say no casting that stone….
@Its me…i to say, that did not come out in a right way.
I think every one has aright to do whatever they please with their bodies, n sh’dn’t be judged by mere mortals who are also not immune to such matters…
y live ur life with some one u were not ready for, some even throw them away,…which one is more savage, throwing it in a pit latrine or abortion?
Erique if everyone was as reasonable as you and took in the msges like you HIV would be history among other things. People know it kills and yet they go without the galimpitawa. We should blame them too for having HIV ask them what they were thinking right???? For handing themselves and others a death sentence. How about we pay attention to the before, without blaming. And yes in deed kcuF abortion